Remind yourself about what you're working toward. Review the new perspectives that aim to bring you happiness and peace no matter what your situation.
Let's take a look:
*From Injustice to Justice.
You receive justice every time you listen to someone who has a valid point and then you own your part. You're killing off the 'ghost' from the past that makes you react as if the opposite were true.
*From Mistrust to Trust.
When you choose to trust, you build the foundation of love. Trust is choosing to listen objectively, accepting that you're a valuable part of a mutually respectful relationship.
*From Self Protective to Confident.
You gain confidence and respect when you stand up for yourself in a way that discovers the truth and finds resolution.
*From Pride to Humility.
You honor yourself and the relationships that are important to you when you drop grudges, hear what's off, and determine to find the way back.
*From Fear of Authority to Respect.
Respect the people put in place to lead you to personal victory. It's unfair to think that because others mistreated you, then everyone in a similar position will mistreat you.
Will any of these help you stay in your happy place today? If so, which ones?